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Old 07-27-2007, 12:12 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple
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Default Re: First foursome ended weird!

I'm sure you already know the probability of this sequence of events is precisely the reason behind the general guidance against newbies playing with other newbies. That part is already history and what the future holds is dependent on the maturity and communication skills of the players. Hopefully, everyone gets comfortable with the activity that took place and becomes excited to take it to the next level of sharing. She sounds motivated toward that objective, maybe she just needs a little guidance. It sounds like he may need more time to think and they will need lots of communication and support. Here's hoping things turn out with everyone happy.
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