[blondie77]

Oh wow.....there is sooo much good advice here. While I agree with everyone, I especially liked what socolais said about her being assertive (which she is) and him not saying much throughout the night. Perhaps he was "taken for a ride", and let her know once they were back together. Who knows. I did email her earlier today to let her know that we had a good time, but didn't mention anything about that evening. I just read her response...some small chit chat, then some mention at the bottom wondering if I was upset with her. Hmmmm. I haven't emailed her back yet. This is just all so strange. It was soooo easy when all hubby and I did was threesomes. It's so much harder when you have to make four people happy. Wouldn't life be soooo much easier if everyone just said what they meant and meant what they said?