Well I am by no means "hot and attractive"
But do enjoy the MFM play. I was discussing this with someone one day and their response was " your inviting someone into a relationship that is already established". You know each others hots spots and buttons to push. You've got a routine and are probably pretty secure in your play. Now enters the 3rd, depending if they have had experience or not it's gotta be intimidating.
It would be nice to know if anyone does have some suggetions. The only thing we've done is try to make the guy as comfy as possible. Will be interesting to hear from others.
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