 Re: need advice
Two things: don't rush things, keep an eye on her drinking.
She obviously either has had some bad experiences or just a plain straitlaced upbringing. This will not change overnight, nor even in a few months. She has to go at it at her own pace; though you do have to give some playful, loving encouragement.
She has to feel self-confident before she will let those walls go down. Show her that letting loose is OK. Havefuninsun's "you rock my world" advice is great; just don't expect her to answer, she'll start advancing in that direction when she simply responds with a small smile.
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