[ericandkara]

well this is my first post here so i would like to say hi first of all kara and i are a 25 yr old couple in tx. well now to what i need advice on. a little back ground we have been exploring lifestyle clubs and the lifestyle we are not sure where it will go for us yet but we are happy where it has gone so far when she has had a couple of drinks she is the best partner in bed i have ever had it is great. she lets loose and i really cant even tell u how good she is in bed after drinking. where i want to help her is when she hasnt been drinking she holds back and doesnt let her self enjoy the sex. i really dont know if i am doing a good job explaining it but for example after a couple of drinks she asks me to do things to her or talk to her dirty but i would like to spice up our sober sex life and if i sent her a dirty text during the day asked her "what are you wearing" and try to have fore play long before i even get home she will not have anything to do with it and will get offended to some degree. it is like she is in a shell and will not come out with out a couple of drinks. i am open to do what ever it takes to find out how to get her to open up and let loose, i guess for lack of a better term what gets her rocks off or her blood pumping. i want to see that fire in her eyes. I want to help her find her self sexually. Has any one had any experince with this type of thing any advice would be nice. and if you have any questions please ask