[Confused In PA]

I really appreciate all the replies regarding my problem. Update:

I'm still not getting any answers and thought the "letter" would let her tell me something about the "Why?" I wasn't getting anywhere with the yelling and screaming and apparently the less aggravating appraoch isn't getting anywhere either. I've resigned myself to the fact that I'm not getting an answer.

I'm going to get out of this mess while I'm still sane and let her screw up her own life because she is definately done screwing up mine. I'm sure someone out there will appreciate me more than she did/does and then I'll have the last laugh.