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havefuninsun · 07-18-2007, 12:01 PM

I wouldn't blame the single guy at all -- we don't have enough information. Hell, she could have lied to that dude and said you were all on board with her meeting him, etc. ...

SHE was completely in the wrong. For the life of me, I will never understand cheating swingers ... seems like a oxymoron to me. Think about it ... your spouse will allow you to fuck other people ... why in the HELL would you cheat for sex? If she's cheating, it's for other reasons.

Take the swinging out of the mix for now. Work on your marriage (if it's worth working on). Once you are strong in your marriage, THEN you MAY be able to broach the subject again.

Sorry you're going through all of this.

07-18-2007, 12:01 PM	#22 (permalink)
havefuninsun insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:havefuninsun	Re: Cheated then lied. sorry so long I wouldn't blame the single guy at all -- we don't have enough information. Hell, she could have lied to that dude and said you were all on board with her meeting him, etc. ... SHE was completely in the wrong. For the life of me, I will never understand cheating swingers ... seems like a oxymoron to me. Think about it ... your spouse will allow you to fuck other people ... why in the HELL would you cheat for sex? If she's cheating, it's for other reasons. Take the swinging out of the mix for now. Work on your marriage (if it's worth working on). Once you are strong in your marriage, THEN you MAY be able to broach the subject again. Sorry you're going through all of this.