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Old 07-18-2007, 11:38 AM   #6 (permalink)
havefuninsun
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Default Re: Chem 101

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Originally Posted by socolais
Thanks for the comments. It appears I am making this more complex than it needs to be - imagine that I understand how the binary system applies so easily because when it comes to play activity, there's no middle ground - put your full effort into every play time or stay home.

I try to not judge a book by its cover, but that has to happen on some level when evaluating new acquaintenances. I extrapolate the potential for fun by their maturity, communication skills, kissing skills and my inexperienced assessment of the unlikliness of stupid drama.

I think we'll keep our ternary system for a while longer, because it seems to be working for us.
I kinda like your system. I know Mr. Fun has a system that consists of "She is HOT" and "I'd do her" to "not at all" -- which isn't all that different than yours. And that is with first appearances ... someone who isn't a "looker" can easily go to the hot category with the right attitude and personality. I think my standards are more strict than is, but that's not surprising ... I think most woman have higher standards (sorry guys ... LOL). We try not to rule anyone out either without meeting them. You just ever know who you might find ...
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