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Originally Posted by SouthBond We think that you need to forgive her and continue to think about swinging. Thirteen years is a long time to just flush. If you have been talking about swinging. Emailing people about swinging. Meeting people about swinging. She has had previous experiences. You have been building up an anticipation of having sex with another person. She was ready for action. She was hot to trot. Give her the benefit of doubt and give her another chance. You have been talking about her having sex with other people. She just got a little ahead you. If she continues to play games, dump her. We can assume that you are absolutely perfect. Can't we? |
This is the reverse from the same coin I mentioned in my previous post.
SouthBond, I don't know what lead you to provide this advice, but the OP isn't YOU.
I am pretty sure he have well grounded motivations to feel the way he does about being betrayed, and it is posible that his wife had a grounded motivation to act the way she did.
We shouldn't deprive those motivations from it value, without knowing more about the whole thing. We just don't have enough information as to provide an advice.
So far, the only one we can talk about is the OP.
Later on he asked for advice about the vaule of seeking for professional help, and I believe this is a wise measure to take.