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Old 07-17-2007, 09:00 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Default Re: Cheated then lied. sorry so long

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Originally Posted by Confused In PA
We've been together 13 years and have had the same problems that all couples have. Perhaps this is her way of telling me it's not working.

In addition to the obvious advice has anyone had experience talking to a psychologist about a situation like this? I am not feeling so good about myself since this happened and know for sure that I need to talk to someone about how I feel. I can't sleep, can't eat and work is becoming very difficult. I can talk to her but that won't be enough.
curious, this is a pretty serious issue. i can somehow relate to your needs for advice and i dont want to compare problems,or share mine. ours are diffrent.yet swinging was involved in mine/ours as well.

people have diffrent oppinions and this is something i would have to say needs profesional help. there is nothing to be ashamed of in seeking some counseling be it alone or together. mr.fun
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