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Originally Posted by SouthBond We think that you need to forgive her and continue to think about swinging. Thirteen years is a long time to just flush. If you have been talking about swinging. Emailing people about swinging. Meeting people about swinging. She has had previous experiences. You have been building up an anticipation of having sex with another person. She was ready for action. She was hot to trot. Give her the benefit of doubt and give her another chance. You have been talking about her having sex with other people. She just got a little ahead you. If she continues to play games, dump her. We can assume that you are absolutely perfect. Can't we? |
I don't agree, she cheated in a premeditated fashion and lied about it. She has a lot of s'plaining to do. I'd personally be extremely angry with my wife if she did anything like that and I can't say what I'd do from there.
We can assume that you are absolutely perfect. Can't we?
I can't speak for the poster, but I can state that in 16 years together I've never cheated on my wife. I know if I did she would be devastated.