[SouthBond]

We think that you need to forgive her and continue to think about swinging. Thirteen years is a long time to just flush. If you have been talking about swinging. Emailing people about swinging. Meeting people about swinging. She has had previous experiences. You have been building up an anticipation of having sex with another person. She was ready for action. She was hot to trot. Give her the benefit of doubt and give her another chance. You have been talking about her having sex with other people. She just got a little ahead you. If she continues to play games, dump her. We can assume that you are absolutely perfect. Can't we?