[Confused In PA]

We've been together 13 years and have had the same problems that all couples have. Perhaps this is her way of telling me it's not working.

In addition to the obvious advice has anyone had experience talking to a psychologist about a situation like this? I am not feeling so good about myself since this happened and know for sure that I need to talk to someone about how I feel. I can't sleep, can't eat and work is becoming very difficult. I can talk to her but that won't be enough.