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Old 07-17-2007, 03:38 PM   #11 (permalink)
mrs good times
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Default Re: self esteem problems

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Originally Posted by tangyspecial

After a long talk with the hubby last night, I think we came up with a solution. We will still continue to play with this couple (they obviously don't mind what I think is wrong with me and we have become good friends), but from now on we will seek other couples who have children. I'm not worried about being rejected once my clothes come off by a woman who has been through the same body changes as me.

Feel free to keep the advice coming though girls!
If this works for you I understand but I want to give you something else to consider.

I have never had children and consider myself HWP but I also have issues with my body from time to time because there is always someone that you think looks better than you.

I have a scar on my stomach that runs from above the belly button down to the pubic area. I was very self concious about what a guy would think when he saw it for the first time because like you know one would know about it until I got naked. I have had people ask why I have the scar but I have never had anyone turn down play because of it.

In your case I consider you luckier than me because you don't have to explain stretch marks. It's a natural part of being a mother and most women in the lifestyle have or will have children.
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