[cubnamy1995]

I came across this one and had to post. I too, used to have an issue with not lasting very long. Zoloft took care of that. Now I have the opposite problem. If I am not completely relaxed, while I can get and keep an erection, I can go a long time and not get off. Very seldom is it a problem with Amy, but when I have to "perform", I worry, which, of course, makes it worse.

While it is well known that women can be very self-conscious, I don't think women realize just how much we want to please them, and worry about it. I did fine during our last FFM, but we haven't since I started the zoloft, so I am sweating it a bit.