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I'll share an experience i have had that was extrrremely erotic. I was once at a party where a caterer had brought in tables and tables of food - amazing finger food, variety, anything you could imagine - olives, strawberries, cheeses, etc. All of it was 'finger food' but amazing. You could have anything you wanted. As much as you wanted. The only rule: You could not feed yourself. Someone else had to get the food for you and put it in your mouth. Try it - its more amazing than it sounds, and i look forward to hosting one of these myself. The room had the lights lowered, there were alot of candles, and the caterer's people were dressed in black and stayed out of sight, emerging to replenish strawberries, chocolate etc. Extreemely sensual and erotic. Let me know if it works for you!