 Re: Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging?
I agree with Intuition. I am not condemning you DKent, just stating my opinion. I said that some women are broadsided by affairs. My cousin was one. Her husband walks in, says he has another woman, so long been nice knowing you. If you had seen the destroyed woman I saw you would feel some guilt. Trust me. What pisses me off is the fact that you almost blame your wife. Its the old trick: "If she were taking care of me at home I wouldn't HAVE to cheat"....sorry, passing the buck. I chewed a friend out for telling me that about the wife of the man she was having an affair with. Took about 20 pounds off of her ass. Another thing that annoys me is this: When your wife finds out about your affairs she will probably BLAME HERSELF. Women are notorious for accepting the blame. She will be looking at what SHE could have done to keep you faithful. Shame on you for that. Again, I'm not condemning you. You have condemned yourself. Do I make mistakes? Hell yes I do. I have in swinging for goodness sakes, truth be told. But Jay and I are honest with each other, even when honesty pisses one of us off. Regarding coming clean. Its the right thing to do. I don't know, thats up to you.
Shelly
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