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OhioCouple · 03-09-2003, 06:43 PM

I agree with Mr. Alura. The window of opportunity to discuss it has been opened. You can gently approach her with talk about that evening and see if you can get her to open up as to whether there was some attraction there. Take it slow and don't push the issue if she doesn't want to talk about it or avoids the conversation entirely. Let her know how excited the thought makes you. Most importantly don't push the issue though. If she is reluctant to talk any futher about it, let it go. Chances are after she has had some time to think about it, she may bring it up on her own.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out.

Lori

03-09-2003, 06:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I agree with Mr. Alura. The window of opportunity to discuss it has been opened. You can gently approach her with talk about that evening and see if you can get her to open up as to whether there was some attraction there. Take it slow and don't push the issue if she doesn't want to talk about it or avoids the conversation entirely. Let her know how excited the thought makes you. Most importantly don't push the issue though. If she is reluctant to talk any futher about it, let it go. Chances are after she has had some time to think about it, she may bring it up on her own. Good luck and let us know how it turns out. Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.