The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Friends surprised us, I'm interested but not sure hubby is... Advice?

katcouple · 07-03-2007, 11:24 AM

D,

Sounds like you may have been in the dark. Is it possible hubby thought you may be scared away if you knew what you were in for that evening? I am in the "he knew more" camp.

Full communication is so important. Mrs. Kat and I are new to the lifestyle, but we communicate everything....even the most mundane thing to you can be huge to your partner.

IMHO, I would suggest you open a discussion with hubby to get it all out on the table.

Most importantly, Have fun!!

Regards,
Katman

07-03-2007, 11:24 AM	#9 (permalink)
katcouple Registered Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 3 Location: SFBay Area Status: Couple	Re: Friends surprised us, I'm interested but not sure hubby is... Advice? D, Sounds like you may have been in the dark. Is it possible hubby thought you may be scared away if you knew what you were in for that evening? I am in the "he knew more" camp. Full communication is so important. Mrs. Kat and I are new to the lifestyle, but we communicate everything....even the most mundane thing to you can be huge to your partner. IMHO, I would suggest you open a discussion with hubby to get it all out on the table. Most importantly, Have fun!! Regards, Katman