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Old 07-03-2007, 10:30 AM   #11 (permalink)
BCinIN
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Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 91
Location: Indiana
Status: Male Half of Couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:BCandC

BCinIN gives some great advice
Default Re: THe VERY full swap

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So - how this arrangement would work is that he and your wife get to act like sweethearts while you and his wife are simply tag-a-longs?
I'm betting yes on this, and to the OP: don't allow yourself to get the short end of the stick. EVER. Bad news, and that's that.

But even that's beside the point. Actually sleeping together, cuddling...these are the sort of things couples do. Does your wife want to do these things with the other husband, or is it just him wanting it? If I were you, and it were the latter, I'd find a new couple (especially since this one seems possessive and dishonest). If the former, I'd get a new wife.
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