Drusilla,
This should be submitted to the 'story' section! Man, was it ever hot to read!
If your husband doesn't absolutely, totally, and unequivatively appreciate having a wife like you, then he's been around a Disney Land charactor too much. (F'ing Goofy) LOL!
Have you thought about talking to the other couples, letting them know you're very game if you're husband is, then letting them see if your husband is?
I'll just bet these two ladies can seduce him.