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Drusilla · 07-02-2007, 11:34 PM

I talked to a friend of mine and told her in more detail what exactly happened in order...I know, how much more could there be??? I wrote a dang book. Maybe I should condense that a bit??

Anyway...she suggested that it may be possible my husband may actually know more than he's telling me. It felt to me like the other two couples were all somehow feeling me out or leading me into it. Is it possible my husband knew about it all along? He was with them when the friend called me to ask me to go. Hubby knows I've always found his friend attractive....

As far as I know, though, my husband has never lied to me. We've been together since 1989 and always very committed and strong as a couple. Now I'm wondering if the other night was some sort of a test that he was in on?

Is he sitting around wondering how to talk to me about it? Is he thinking I'm not into it? I think I've been pretty obvious to him though, that I would be into it. Although I do remember saying once upon a time that fantasies were great but I'd never do it. Ha! I was sooo wrong!

07-02-2007, 11:34 PM	#3 (permalink)
Drusilla Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 50 Location: Pacific Northwest Status: M. Female	Re: Friends surprised us, I'm interested but not sure hubby is... Advice? I talked to a friend of mine and told her in more detail what exactly happened in order...I know, how much more could there be??? I wrote a dang book. Maybe I should condense that a bit?? Anyway...she suggested that it may be possible my husband may actually know more than he's telling me. It felt to me like the other two couples were all somehow feeling me out or leading me into it. Is it possible my husband knew about it all along? He was with them when the friend called me to ask me to go. Hubby knows I've always found his friend attractive.... As far as I know, though, my husband has never lied to me. We've been together since 1989 and always very committed and strong as a couple. Now I'm wondering if the other night was some sort of a test that he was in on? Is he sitting around wondering how to talk to me about it? Is he thinking I'm not into it? I think I've been pretty obvious to him though, that I would be into it. Although I do remember saying once upon a time that fantasies were great but I'd never do it. Ha! I was sooo wrong!