 Re: THe VERY full swap
I agree with the posts. I dont know OP, I would have some flags flying up.
Number one, and I just posted to this effect yesterday, the intimacy of sleeping next to someone and cuddling, spooning, all that is just an intimacy that will not be shared with anyone other than Jay. We are absolutely comfortable with separate room play, and I'll lie there with you for a few moments laughing and talking while Jay and the other lady finishes....but will not snuggle with you. I'm telling you, this can lead to mis-understandings and trouble.
The fact that they lied to you would annoy me. I mean, we all know the deal! There is no need to lie....so I don't know why they did. Its a hard call on whether or not to call them out on it. However, I'll tell you this: monogamy is a no go with us. We have couples that we love playing with and do often. But we know they do this, and they know we do the same, if we meet a cool couple or single we go with what we know LOL...if I am not sexually monogomous to my husband some other dude better not be thinking I'm going to be with him.
I can't render much advise. I would be very uncomfortable with the snuggling thing, and would let them know that you play with who you choose.
Shelly
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