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Old 07-02-2007, 06:17 PM   #5 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: THe VERY full swap

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Originally Posted by couple4fun2821
but his wife doesn’t seem to want the same, or she doesn’t receive the same.
So - how this arrangement would work is that he and your wife get to act like sweethearts while you and his wife are simply tag-a-longs?

No part of what you describe would be interesting to us. We love to flirt and we love to have friends with whom we are really friends - but we really don't want to swap to that extent. We actually did once have a couple state that this was a fantasy of theirs. This was exactly the kind of couple that'd we do just about anything with. But, even then, with this great couple, it wasn't something that struck a chord.

But, in your case, if we met a couple that wasn't on the same page with their interests, acted possessive and was dishonest about little things (hey, swingers have sex with people. All of our friends, new and old, assume that we aren't lifestyle virgins) - we'd back away quickly.

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