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Old 07-01-2007, 02:34 PM   #3 (permalink)
likeitalot04
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Join Date: Mar 2004
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Location: So Cal
Status: couple

likeitalot04 gives some great advice
Thumbs up Re: Finding a way to talk about it

What a great post Rides!

Finally, someone puts into words what has really worked for them...after reading disaster after disaster it is refreshing to read about someone that has thought it through...you related it in a way your mate could find logic in the thought process and at the same time gave him permission to proceed. OUTSTANDING! I see you as intelligent and sensitive.

Please keep updating this post as you and your husband work through the process from fantasy to reality...it will help all of us that are terrified at bringing the subject up...as you know it is difficult putting the genie back in the bottle!

The BEST of luck to you and yours in your new adventure...please tell us all about it in the same wonderful way you did in this post with emphasis on how you have solved the "problem areas" as they came up.

BTW Rides...I bet you DO ride like new! It is "Attitude, attitude, attitude!"

Hmmm...I find myself fantasizing about your husband and my wife having their first experience together...and you know what that would mean!

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