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Old 06-30-2007, 07:07 PM   #46 (permalink)
ShellyM
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Default Re: Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging?

Well, I would not throw out personal attacks. I know for a fact that sometimes women turn into this alter ego, what I call "super Mommies". Their kids become their entire world....and this is NOT a bad thing. But I appreciate the fact that Jay takes care of himself, and I do the same for him. We keep our sex life on overdrive because from that physical connection comes a spiritual, intimate connection.

I do agree, she knows what he is up to. Now, I have met a few women who were absolutely blindsided by an affiar, no clue at all. But most knew who she was, where she worked, how many kids she had, etc. etc. and etc. To do something like asking her to become a swinger on Mother's Day knowing how she feels about the issue was not smart. I don't know the OP enough to say whether or not it was malicious in nature, I can only hope that it wasn't.

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