The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging?

Cpl2share · 06-30-2007, 04:38 PM

As a person who enjoys playing devils advocate:
Just maybe the reason that the OP's wife is now more interested in sex is because the OP is around home more now and she does not have the time for secret trysts. She may not be interested in going to swinger events because she has already been to many of them while he was off getting it on the side. She does not want one of her many past "lovers" to recognize and out her.
I have known many women and yes I have cheated on many girlfriends (NEVER MY WIFE) in my day. Women are SMART! They may not have proof, and they may not know who, but they always know what. Every time that I cheated on a girlfriend she figured it out. I am 100% certain that the OP's wife does know about his cheating. In 28 years there is no way that he has successfully hidden it. Come on, he can't be that smart. A woman with that low of interest in sex, and he proposes swinging on Mothers Day? That is not a sign of high IQ.
Further: The OP's statement that he is now spending more time with his wife because the kids are on their own tells me that he DID avoid spending time at home. He is lowlife.

06-30-2007, 04:38 PM	#45 (permalink)
Cpl2share Is it too cold for beer? Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 344 Location: Way up north. Status: Couple	Re: Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging? As a person who enjoys playing devils advocate: Just maybe the reason that the OP's wife is now more interested in sex is because the OP is around home more now and she does not have the time for secret trysts. She may not be interested in going to swinger events because she has already been to many of them while he was off getting it on the side. She does not want one of her many past "lovers" to recognize and out her. I have known many women and yes I have cheated on many girlfriends (NEVER MY WIFE) in my day. Women are SMART! They may not have proof, and they may not know who, but they always know what. Every time that I cheated on a girlfriend she figured it out. I am 100% certain that the OP's wife does know about his cheating. In 28 years there is no way that he has successfully hidden it. Come on, he can't be that smart. A woman with that low of interest in sex, and he proposes swinging on Mothers Day? That is not a sign of high IQ. Further: The OP's statement that he is now spending more time with his wife because the kids are on their own tells me that he DID avoid spending time at home. He is lowlife.