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ShellyM · 06-30-2007, 10:43 AM

Spoo, I absolutely agree with you.
But, does one spouse have the right to deny sexual intimacy to the other KNOWING that they need more? She is his wife and has to know that he needs more sex. We know when our hubbies jerk off usually. No one has the right to cheat, and I am not condonging the affairs. AND I agree with you, he seems to not want to cheat because its a hassle to schedule a tryst. (JMO, I'm not judging anyone here but rather making a point). BUT. If she knows that her husband needs more sexual intimacy, and yes I think that for some people it is a need and not just a want, does she have the right to say "I'm not giving you sex AND you will not seek it from another woman?" I don't know the answer to that myself, its such a hard call to make. Do the opinions/preferences of one spouse outweigh the other when both spouses are supposed to be 50% of a marriage?
Okay, I'm thinking way too much before having my coffee.
Shelly

06-30-2007, 10:43 AM	#41 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat Swing Lifestyle Name:lost_j1	Re: Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging? Spoo, I absolutely agree with you. But, does one spouse have the right to deny sexual intimacy to the other KNOWING that they need more? She is his wife and has to know that he needs more sex. We know when our hubbies jerk off usually. No one has the right to cheat, and I am not condonging the affairs. AND I agree with you, he seems to not want to cheat because its a hassle to schedule a tryst. (JMO, I'm not judging anyone here but rather making a point). BUT. If she knows that her husband needs more sexual intimacy, and yes I think that for some people it is a need and not just a want, does she have the right to say "I'm not giving you sex AND you will not seek it from another woman?" I don't know the answer to that myself, its such a hard call to make. Do the opinions/preferences of one spouse outweigh the other when both spouses are supposed to be 50% of a marriage? Okay, I'm thinking way too much before having my coffee. Shelly
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