Re: what would you do different?
I may also take a beating, but my personal "what would I do differently" would be "not bother with single men" or alternatively, "don't put any stock into what is coming out of their mouths". I don't want to treat single men as "walking dildos", but at the same time, the majority have shown to have no value other than that by their stupid actions, their lying and other disrespectful behavior. It's just tiring to me.
There's the 1% single male, of course, which has been reasonably satisfactory, but if and when that ends, so does my single male in swinging interest, I suspect, unless another 1% single just happens to appear. But the odds of lightening striking twice...
Taking one for the team is a very close second (and our number one lesson learned for us as a couple).
Rebecca
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