 Re: what would you do different?
Well, I know you said "besides too many rules", but that really was our biggest mistake and the biggest mistake we see most newbies make.
I would also agree with BiloxiCouple, the internet ad sites are a major time waster. It is funny, Mrs. GT was just on the phone talking about this to a couple fairly new to the lifestyle who has spent way more time and energy meeting people through the internet personals than is necessary. We meet more compatible people in one visit to the club than they have in several months of working there profile and setting up meets every week.
Finally, taking one for the team. We did that more than we should have at first, what we found out is that it usually isn't any good for either of us when we do, so we avoid it as much as possible now days.
I know, you asked for only "the one thing", in my own defense we never made the personals mistake ourselves, we sure have seen a lot of others make it though.
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