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Originally Posted by DKent The sex seemed to be more frequent, but still rather traditional, or "vanilla" as some say... At this point, I had sort of lost the need to "cheat" as I was getting sex once a week, or three times a month at least, from my wife. |
Okay - putting aside the other issues...
This sounds to me like you were trying to jump a canyon on a tricycle...
This isn't exactly a profile of a woman ready to swing. If anything, you really jumped the gun. Mrs Spoo and I were having sex an average of 10 times a week when we first got into swinging - and that average hasn't changed much. And while we haven't covered our walls with plastic, I wouldn't consider our personal sex lives "vanilla".
I would think that for the most part, the wives that are open to swinging are pretty sexual creatures.
That was my point about trust... You guys were just reestablishing a sex life together - and were really in the "crawl before you walk" stage. Then, you toss swinging at her? No wonder she wigged out...
Spoomonkey