Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging? Quote:
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Originally Posted by DKent OK, this is not as much for seeking advice (although I'm sure I'll get plenty!) as to commiserate with other husbands whose vanilla-minded wives simply will not even entertain the notion of swinging or anything beyond the realm of monogamous sex. |
Addressing the board, not the OP:
This board gets bombarded with these cheating husbands looking for buddies and comrades to justify what they want, what they do and how they feel. They want to cry on our shoulders (or each other's shoulders) about what they're not getting. Most of the time, they're looking for advice on how to coerce their wives into doing what they want. I don't believe that we are here to entertain them, or to coach them on how to maneuver and manipulate their wives into swinging. Do you? Personally, I feel this type of post is going to change the dynamic of the board, if we let them take over. It seems there are more and more of these posting here. The Internet is full of places for cheaters and manipulators to commiserate. Let them go there.
I would like to suggest that the board create a new separate forum for these posts, and move them when they pop up here. As Spoo said, and many of us have said before, cheating is the opposite of swinging. Men trying to coerce wives is NOT swinging, either. I'd rather not see this shit constantly on the
Swingersboard. It's a complete downer. It doesn't fit here.