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I guess I dont get it, maybe it's because I could never walk in your shoes after so many years in my marriage and there is no way you could walk in mine.

You dont want to hurt your wife by telling about your secret cheating life, my heart bleeds a little for your wife. So many years she was by your side building a life and your buisness and not having the respect of your honesty, and to me this is about her being respected. I'm sorry, I dont get it, I dont get you or your reasons.

It seems that all of this is about you having your cake and eating it too. You seem to want the icing on your cake by swinging now. To me, it seems that you don't deserve the iceing YOUR WIFE DOES, NOT YOU !!!

Like I said, you cant walk in my shoes nore can I walk in your shoes now. It sounds like you can't be honest with your wife, because you dont want to hurt her.

Well you already have, you just believe that what she can't see, doesnt hurt. I can only imagine how many times that woman has sat there with you at any get together with anyone and was a fool for being with you. And you say you were a good husband? That makes you feel good?

I'm going out on a limb here but isn't your real reason you could never be honest, is the fact that you might lose everything ? At least half of what you have? I see fear, not mercy.

Some of the things you need to rethink, like your past. Look at the road you think you see in your future now. Its kind of illusional to me, isint it? I mean you have researched the lifestyle and you are going to a club and there you will stand, nakid? and your wife in a snow suit talking to no one. And she has now went to the car because she can't handle this place or how you feel.. Well my friend, you have just hert her again.

Hide the wounds if that makes you feel good.