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Originally Posted by DKent I've never done anything "to" my wife all these years but be a wonderful, loving, supportive husband to her. |
That is not entirely true, now is it?
You HAVE cheated on her, yes? That is doing "something" isn't it? If you don't think so - ask her... I am sure that she might actually agree with me that you have, in fact, done something to her...
The fact that you have successfully covered it up doesn't mean that you've never done anything. It just means you've never gotten caught.
You have been dishonest with her, you are being remarkably dishonest with yourself, and you wonder why you have no chance at swinging? Seriously? I am not saying that you should tell her what you have done - if you can spare her feelings about your infidelities, by all means do so. But at the very least be honest with yourself - you cheated on your wife, which would - based on your reluctance to tell her - hurt her very much.
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Originally Posted by DKent You're lucky, not necessarily good. |
I am very lucky.
But I am sure that it is not in the way that you think.
I am lucky to have a wife who shares my interests - in sex as well as football... She is willing to talk to me about everything - just as I am willing to talk to her about everything. I am VERY lucky to have a soul mate with whom everything is on the table. I can assure that I have done nothing in my marriage that I would not tell her about - and I consider it quite lucky that I had the foresight to build such a relationship.
You see - we swing out of our honesty, not in spite of our "dishonesty". I am not judging you for what you have done, I am commenting on what you are now trying to do - which amounts to building a mansion on a foundation of shit...
Spoomonkey