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Gr8dad2 · 06-28-2007, 11:27 AM

Ok here goes.. been married 32.. almost 33 years.. we got started with our maid of honor for our wedding and progressed through 3somes both MFM and FMF.. and even a couple swap with at least three other couples.. I was in heaven she was the hottie of my dreams everything was perfect.. but one bad encounter and to this day I am not sure what specifically did it... she said thats it no more.. I have asked many times what happened but to no avail..the answer now is no way in hell.. and in fact she keeps getting more and more conservative and less and less interested in any sex

So where does that leave me.. well over the years I have had to attempt outside activity alone which is very difficult since most swingers look at married guys alone as "dirty cheaters" and don't really want to hook up with them..but the search goes on.. finding a lady here and there that wants to enjoy life as much as I do.. but single ladies want more than us married guys can give.. thank God for the internet and we can fill our lives with pics and vids of others doing what I used to and for friends I have met and are understanding of how I feel and think and not look down on a lonely old pervert( I will be a dirty old man until I am a dead old man). I have a wonderful lady friend that is 2500 miles away from me that we are so attuned to each other. our lives are so similar just reversed with her husband being the vanilla person.. we share a lot .. we talk constantlt we share pics.. we cam .. we give what we can to make the other happy and yet we know the chance of us getting together is very remote.. I do adore her for all she has given to me .. and I know I have made her happier in her life.. But I still wish and want that physical attention that requires somebody close to touch and feel and please.. and maybe if I keep looking I will find that person and I WILL keep looking until forever.. so if anybody in the Philly area wants to talk or have a serious friend with benefits.. let me know.. I am on AOl at the same addy as I use here.. good luck to all

06-28-2007, 11:27 AM	#13 (permalink)
Gr8dad2 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Philadelphia area Status: m. Male	Re: Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging? Ok here goes.. been married 32.. almost 33 years.. we got started with our maid of honor for our wedding and progressed through 3somes both MFM and FMF.. and even a couple swap with at least three other couples.. I was in heaven she was the hottie of my dreams everything was perfect.. but one bad encounter and to this day I am not sure what specifically did it... she said thats it no more.. I have asked many times what happened but to no avail..the answer now is no way in hell.. and in fact she keeps getting more and more conservative and less and less interested in any sex So where does that leave me.. well over the years I have had to attempt outside activity alone which is very difficult since most swingers look at married guys alone as "dirty cheaters" and don't really want to hook up with them..but the search goes on.. finding a lady here and there that wants to enjoy life as much as I do.. but single ladies want more than us married guys can give.. thank God for the internet and we can fill our lives with pics and vids of others doing what I used to and for friends I have met and are understanding of how I feel and think and not look down on a lonely old pervert( I will be a dirty old man until I am a dead old man). I have a wonderful lady friend that is 2500 miles away from me that we are so attuned to each other. our lives are so similar just reversed with her husband being the vanilla person.. we share a lot .. we talk constantlt we share pics.. we cam .. we give what we can to make the other happy and yet we know the chance of us getting together is very remote.. I do adore her for all she has given to me .. and I know I have made her happier in her life.. But I still wish and want that physical attention that requires somebody close to touch and feel and please.. and maybe if I keep looking I will find that person and I WILL keep looking until forever.. so if anybody in the Philly area wants to talk or have a serious friend with benefits.. let me know.. I am on AOl at the same addy as I use here.. good luck to all