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Originally Posted by DKent Comments? How do you handle this? Do you keep pressing? Did you give up? Why exactly are you here reading the forum like me?
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I am here reading the forum because it's informational and there are others out there that have dealt or are dealing with the same types of things that we are.
There are things that my SO keeps bringing to the table at times and it irks me. Because it does seem like I'm being pressured and if my answers change then he will be informed.
And just to copy from your reply to a comment I made on your other post:
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Originally Posted by DKent Good point about her not being into swinging. I'd never want to jeopardize a wonderful marriage for the forbidden fruit of swinging....she is too beautiful and special a person and I'm still deeply in love with her! - DK |
Honey, you have already jeopardized your wonderful marriage...do you plan on informing her of your activities while in therapy? If for the last 28 years you have been going behind her back to get your kicks, one of these days she's bound to find out. Or she may already know/suspect (intuition has a way of cluing you in...you may not know how or what, but you know it's something) and is waiting for you to come clean.
There are times in life where you can't always have your cake and eat it too. She is willing to go to the nudist resort, and that is apparently out of character for her, be happy that on some level she is trying to do something to please you that is way out of her normal comfort zone.
Good luck,
Maria
