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celtic239 · 06-27-2007, 05:57 PM

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My wife and I are in our 50's and been married for 26 years. Like you I have done a lot of research on the web concerning the lifestyle. I've never had an affair/one night stand or any other laison during our time married. The fascination with the lifestyle is that I thought it would be somehting we could both enjoy. In order to spice things up and introduce her to the lifestyle we have gone on two vacations to Desire in Mexico (a clothing optional resort). She is becoming more comfortable being around naked adults in a sexual charged atmosphere, but she still doesn't like the in your face conduct.
In your case if your Mrs didn't care about your 'indiscretions' then you may want to visit one of the Hedo resorts in Jamacia where there are both singles and couples (Desires is a couples only resort). In this way you may find someone to play with even if your wife doesn't want to get involved.
I believe that the lifestyle, in its truest form, is a couples activity, so unless the wife agrees to play then it just won't happen. That doesn't mean that we will stop going to clothing optional resorts and hitting the hot tub

06-27-2007, 05:57 PM	#3 (permalink)
celtic239 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 506 Location: new york	Re: Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging? D My wife and I are in our 50's and been married for 26 years. Like you I have done a lot of research on the web concerning the lifestyle. I've never had an affair/one night stand or any other laison during our time married. The fascination with the lifestyle is that I thought it would be somehting we could both enjoy. In order to spice things up and introduce her to the lifestyle we have gone on two vacations to Desire in Mexico (a clothing optional resort). She is becoming more comfortable being around naked adults in a sexual charged atmosphere, but she still doesn't like the in your face conduct. In your case if your Mrs didn't care about your 'indiscretions' then you may want to visit one of the Hedo resorts in Jamacia where there are both singles and couples (Desires is a couples only resort). In this way you may find someone to play with even if your wife doesn't want to get involved. I believe that the lifestyle, in its truest form, is a couples activity, so unless the wife agrees to play then it just won't happen. That doesn't mean that we will stop going to clothing optional resorts and hitting the hot tub