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SouthBond · 06-26-2007, 05:40 PM

This is totally beyond our comfort zone. All of our swinging/swapping has nothing to do with anyone under age. Our adventures are about having fun and sex. Your situation seems more like raising a family. We have one good friend that is a Mormon and follows the old idea of having multiple wives and children. He, the spouses, and the children function much like a "regular" one husband and one wife family. They concentrate on the success of the family unit. Having a quality home life, careers, stability, and a great deal of love. They seem to be just as "normal" as anyone in the community. If you are going to maintain a multi-partner family unit, do it right. Function as a family. Act like a family. Build strong and productive kids and relationships. Just be ready to catch hell from the vanilla world. If your kids turn out to be law abiding and productive members of our society, we will know that you were successful. If they turn out to be criminals, drug addicts, or mentally unstable, possibly, you did a poor job.

06-26-2007, 05:40 PM	#4 (permalink)
SouthBond Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 161 Location: Deep River, Texas Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Southbond	Re: Vacations in a poly relationship...... This is totally beyond our comfort zone. All of our swinging/swapping has nothing to do with anyone under age. Our adventures are about having fun and sex. Your situation seems more like raising a family. We have one good friend that is a Mormon and follows the old idea of having multiple wives and children. He, the spouses, and the children function much like a "regular" one husband and one wife family. They concentrate on the success of the family unit. Having a quality home life, careers, stability, and a great deal of love. They seem to be just as "normal" as anyone in the community. If you are going to maintain a multi-partner family unit, do it right. Function as a family. Act like a family. Build strong and productive kids and relationships. Just be ready to catch hell from the vanilla world. If your kids turn out to be law abiding and productive members of our society, we will know that you were successful. If they turn out to be criminals, drug addicts, or mentally unstable, possibly, you did a poor job.