Re: Our declining number of rules.
We had an extensive list when we first started...then we met another couple who we liked and had been swinging for longer. They said "rules? what do you need rules for?" We started talking about that statement, and for us it was pretty much a DUH. We know what each other is like and pretty much what each other is feeling. If things are uncomfortable both of us are forward enough to say so.
As far as our current rules:
1) Nobody as young as my kids, or as old as my Mom.
2) Have to have teeth.
Mrs
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