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Originally Posted by hotcpl4unfla I have experienced "performance anxiety" on two occasions playing withe the other couple- and it usually comes from inhibitions or nerves. I started using Cialis instead of Viagra (Viagra only lasts a little while, and although its effects are much stronger, Cialis works just as well) to overcome this.
A lot of people don't understand that men are sometimes nervous about how they perform with another woman, and with an audience and expectations that pressure can shrink one's spirits, so to speak. Some poeple have issues with this, others don't. Using Cialis is a method I used to "not worry". I had no problems getting it up at the beginning of our sessions, but if something was going on that I wasn't 100% comfortable with, I would lose it and it would take a little before the wife could get me going again. One time, it got to the point I was not in the mood any longer because of it...fortunately we were in the hot tub no one could really tell. 
I used Cialis so I wouldn't worry about "losing it", and it has worked like a charm. Once I overcame my anxiety of "losing it" with our play couple, I no longer needed it. I still use it from time to time- if I anticipate a marathon session on the boat one afternoon or I am exceptionally horny- it works awesome.
Just make sure he gets a checkup, his doctor clears him to use it, and I see no harm in it.
Doctors have even debated that taking something like Cialis or Viagra can be beneficial for older men in maintaining strong and harder erections. The theory is, the more you can get the blood flowing to that appendage, the healthier it is- like working out with weights- you can strengthen it and make it bigger. I am 40 and mine still touches my stomach if I am standing even when I don't use it. I'd have to say it helps.  |
Thanks for the reply...I talked to my hubby about it, and he does want to go ahead and try some meds to see if that helps. I see nothing wrong with it as long as he knows that one way or another, I still think he is fantastic, and I do wish he wouldn't put so much pressure on himself, but I guess that's a "man" thing and I suppose if I had a penis and were in that situation, I'd probably be pressuring myself too much too! I just hope he dosen't have a bad reaction to the meds, but I guess we'll test it out before we go
!! Thanks again for your replies!!