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The only possible explanation for no one having such experiences to share is that no one is being honest about their condition.
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I watched a thread on a different board and that was their conclusion also. For a short time, many wanted to go get blood tests and not do anyone without a clean blood test. Then that fell apart within the larger group and I gave up reading their forum. (It was a pay site).
But, if the risks are less with a person who knows they are infected and takes suppressive therapy and requires condoms...then maybe we won't get infected anyway cuz doing them is safe in many ways.
And I hate to say this about the honesty issue but....it's a nice dream that I don't see happening. I see age, weight, plastic surgery, status and weath lies all over the place here in Cali. I've even seen it said that to be accepted by some groups, just get a pic with a Jag and you are in.

(I did not sneak onto a lot with a Jag with my camera yet, so I dunno)
You may find Ohio is different but I suggest you go look and talk to real people there. I do know that swinging Cali style and this board are worlds apart, rather often.