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Originally Posted by knottyboi I've been in a few groups before and it was always very respectful, always with each person either asking out loud if it was okay, or approaching each other in a slow way to give a person a chance to say no. |
This is the way it should be.
Those guys were wrong, they disrespected you, and it
wasn't your fault. You could do the "should'a, would'a, could'a" thing as much as you want, and it wouldn't change what they did or how wrong it was.
I've never been in your situation, but my gut tells me it may take a while for you to feel completely better about what happened to you, and you should feel fine taking your time with your feelings. Some people might brush it off, but please listen to what your inner voice tells you in this regard.
Being "a good swinger" means always respecting those around you.