The Swingers Board - View Single Post - When they think "NO" means "Just push harder"

**Alura** · 06-19-2007, 01:24 PM

I don't see any reason why you needed to be more assertive, Knottyboi. Once you said, "No!" there should have been no repeat request.

I wonder what might have happened had one of the single men approached another man and asked if he were interested in fucking him... Let's assume the gentleman, like you, said, "No" and the single guy had tried later to enter him anally while he was going down on a woman. I suspect violence would have ensued.

You were the victim of sexual prejudice, nothing less. You definitely came close to being raped. You have no reason to blame yourself. You have every reason to remain angry for some time for being treated like a whore and worse.

Mr. Alura

06-19-2007, 01:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: When they think "NO" means "Just push harder" I don't see any reason why you needed to be more assertive, Knottyboi. Once you said, "No!" there should have been no repeat request. I wonder what might have happened had one of the single men approached another man and asked if he were interested in fucking him... Let's assume the gentleman, like you, said, "No" and the single guy had tried later to enter him anally while he was going down on a woman. I suspect violence would have ensued. You were the victim of sexual prejudice, nothing less. You definitely came close to being raped. You have no reason to blame yourself. You have every reason to remain angry for some time for being treated like a whore and worse. Mr. Alura
	__________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers Last edited by Alura; 06-19-2007 at 01:26 PM.