 Re: When they think "NO" means "Just push harder"
I agree with the other posters girl, they were wrong. Sometimes things just get out of hand, alcohol numbs the brain and people do dumb things. But drunk or not, no means no. There is no "well you are a swinger, you were there to have sex" card. No absolutely means just that, NO. I would take a bit to relax and regather your thoughts. Do you know them? It may help to at least send them an email letting them know that in your mind what they did was basically on the verge of sexual assault. The first time you say NO is the only time you should have to say it. Yes, unfortunately it happens. People do dumb things. Last weekend we were at a house party, and a gent swims up to me and asks if he can touch me. Dummy me, I'm thinking touch means my breasts or something like that....well, he reaches down and sticks 2 fingers in me. I was not amused. I didn't show out, but I let him know that I did not think that was what he meant lol. My point is, know that you did nothing wrong. Swinger or not, house party or not, that is your body and you have every right to determine who does what to YOU.
Best of luck, keep your chin up and know that those creaps are the vast minority...99% of the men would never imagine doing such a thing to a woman.
Shell
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