[daisy girl]

Originally Posted by Lovethenights

If you cruise the Forum and read the pertinent posts, I think you'll find out that his behavior is routinely condemned by those in the lifestyle. Honesty and trustworthiness are highly prized and necessary elements in a relationship that sucedes in the lifestyle. The best result for a couple inthe lifestyle is that their activities bring them closer together and foster a deeper and more oen communication. All that he has done is prove not everyone is ready for such a deep and intimate relationship. His lying and hiding behaviors are signs of his inability to act responsibly and in your best interest. It's not my position to advise you, but the likelihood he is the kind of man you'd really want to end up with is small. "Is this common in the lifestyle?' you asked. It may happen, but if it's known about, most lifestyle couples will avoid the couple like the plague once they find out.

Well Said...