The Swingers Board - View Single Post - When they think "NO" means "Just push harder"

**TNT** · 06-18-2007, 04:36 PM

You didn't do anything wrong...the single men however did. No means No.

The only thing I see that you could have done differently was to have immediately, after saying no and neither of them accepting your no, gone directly to the couple who invited you to the room and explained to them you were having problems with another guest.

Any host/hostess worth their salt will handle any problem a guest is having.

My suggestion to you is when you go to a place by yourself, make sure you have someone you know that you can go to in these type of situations that will help you handle it...be it the host/hostess and/or someone else you trust.

You said that your night improved once the single men were made to leave so just chalk this up to a learning experience and continue to have fun.

Teresa

06-18-2007, 04:36 PM	#6 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,187 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple SLS Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 31	Re: When they think "NO" means "Just push harder" You didn't do anything wrong...the single men however did. No means No. The only thing I see that you could have done differently was to have immediately, after saying no and neither of them accepting your no, gone directly to the couple who invited you to the room and explained to them you were having problems with another guest. Any host/hostess worth their salt will handle any problem a guest is having. My suggestion to you is when you go to a place by yourself, make sure you have someone you know that you can go to in these type of situations that will help you handle it...be it the host/hostess and/or someone else you trust. You said that your night improved once the single men were made to leave so just chalk this up to a learning experience and continue to have fun. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.