There is nothing wrong with how ya feel about this
. To be honest we like to feel someone out a little with conversation about our kids or whats going on in our vanilla life. (without giving out names or where's). in the beginning for us we wanted a couple that was on the same level as us . And thats all good.
thats what chats and dinner or meet and greets are about.
But, if things are leading to sex there has to be a shift in conversation :surrender .
I mean I'm a guy, so talking about kids or work or even life's hassles is just not a mood setter for me. I wouldn't feel wright chatting with a woman and just chatting about sex till after we get to that level. I'm thinking if some guy can only chat about sex he is probably stroking the bone at the pewter.
Ask any questions you like about anything ya like. Its cool and I'm a guy who isn't in to chat sex.