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Old 06-15-2007, 01:31 AM   #8 (permalink)
SouthBond
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 161
Location: Deep River, Texas
Status: couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:Southbond

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Default Re: need conversation help

Where are you going to be when you meet? You might not feel comfortable talking about group sex in the middle of McDonald's. So maybe a public place with vanilla people around would not be a good idea. It's safe but may limit the conversation. You need to meet where you can concentrate on each other and get down to what you want to do. If you have shared pictures and had a little email fun that seemed be accepted by all, you are getting close to fulfilling your fantasy. Now what do you want to do? And how comfortable are you with doing what you want to do? When you go to the motel room and pull off all of your cloths, real adult things start happening. Are you really ready to do and accept it? You are not there to talk about the kids and PTA. You are there to talk about opening up a world of lustful excitement that you have never known. As a team, you and your husband want to help the other couple feel good so that they can help you feel good. You are there to talk about sex.
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