1st let me say what a great job all of you do in helping others with their post. Everyone who is thinking about swinging should log on. Ok I am the male half of a couple, we have been going to couple's only clubs for about 2yrs. We both really injoy meeting new people and seeing friends. We have played with a few couples in the past, so we are not so new to swinging. We get a lot of offers to play but I most always turn them down, Its not that I don't find them hot, it's because I am only about 4" when fully hard. The lady's give me that look like is that all you have? This has happen a few times, and boy talking about making one feel bad. I do love it when a couple comes over and ask us to dance, and when the lady pulls me in close and starts playing with me. Ho yaaaaa. I love the dancing,the touching and being touched,the kissing, but when it comes down to the sex I don't. Just would like to hear from others on this.
