We have been on SLS for a while but have just recently been serious about it. We still haven't posted pics but will be soon. I want to have fun with them and not just post generic side by side pics of us standing next to a tree or something. For me, Hustler type pics of women are a bit of a turn off (in profiles only)
and what gets my attention are what looks like unplanned poses with a little sexy thrown in. In other words if a woman can look sexy without trying I'm betting she will be sexy as hell when she does try. I know what guys want to see from the lady but I'm not quite sure what you ladies like as far as the men go. There are rarely any pics of the guys for some reason and I'm wondering if it is because it is hard to take a complimentary pic of men. Many of the pics I do see are creepy, gay looking or downright obnoxious.
So what do you ladies want to see in profile pic? Skin, dressed nice, or his package? We are not about to post what's between the legs in a profile and face pics are out. Those would only be private. It seems many want to see private face pics right away and I'm not sure I like doing that. I own a couple of businesses with customers all over the place and if word got out it could be a disaster. I understand they are supposedly there for the same reasons we are but there are a lot of posers out there. Which brings me to a couple of other questions. In private pics is it common to have totally nude shots? I'm not sure we would be comfortable doing that in a profile, private or not. In the first couple of contacts, would being refused face or nude pics turn you away from further contact? I would rather find out if there is compatibility before showing either.